{"id":6885,"date":"2025-11-28T09:58:54","date_gmt":"2025-11-28T09:58:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/character-traits-examples\/"},"modified":"2025-11-28T09:58:54","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T09:58:54","slug":"character-traits-examples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/character-traits-examples\/","title":{"rendered":"Character Traits Examples"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know that moment when you\u2019re trying to describe someone \u2014 your coworker, your kid\u2019s soccer coach, your cousin who\u2019s always<\/em> starting backyard projects \u2014 and you blurt out something like, \u201cOh, she\u2019s just\u2026 so<\/em>\u2026\u201d and then your brain freezes? Yeah, I\u2019ve been there. (Ask my sister about the time I tried to explain why I trusted my mechanic. \u201cHe\u2019s got, uh\u2026 good vibes?\u201d Cringe.)<\/p>\n

Back when I worked as a summer camp counselor in Colorado (think: 20 hyper 8-year-olds, 100-degree days, and enough bug spray to fumigate a small town), I realized character traits aren\u2019t just vocabulary words. They\u2019re survival tools. Take patience \u2014 not the \u201cwaiting in a Target checkout line\u201d kind, but the bone-deep patience of helping a homesick kid named Jake braid friendship bracelets for 45 minutes while he tearfully explained why raisins are \u201cthe worst part of trail mix.\u201d That summer taught me traits aren\u2019t labels. They\u2019re choices we make when life gets real.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what I wish I\u2019d known when I started paying attention:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. \n

    Curiosity beats \u201csmarts\u201d every time.<\/strong> My neighbor Dave (retired mechanic, owns a \u201997 Jeep Wrangler he\u2019s rebuilt twice) once told me, \u201cI don\u2019t fix cars. I ask them what\u2019s wrong.\u201d Turns out, curiosity \u2014 that itch to poke at problems until they make sense \u2014 saved me when my dishwasher flooded last Thanksgiving. YouTube tutorials + 3 failed Home Depot trips later, I learned how PVC glue smells exactly like regret.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  2. \n

    Resilience isn\u2019t about gritting your teeth.<\/strong> It\u2019s about laughing when everything goes sideways. Like the time I tried to start a veggie garden and ended up growing a single mutant carrot that looked like Danny DeVito. My mom\u2019s advice? \u201cNext year, plant zucchini. They\u2019ll grow if you glare at them hard enough.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  3. \n

    Empathy\u2019s messy\u2026 and that\u2019s okay.<\/strong> I used to think being empathetic meant having all the right responses. Then I volunteered at an animal shelter and met a trembling rescue pup named Gus. The woman adopting him didn\u2019t say much \u2014 just sat on the floor with him for an hour, silently sharing beef jerky. Sometimes \u201cI get it\u201d doesn\u2019t need words.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The traits that surprised me most (good and bad):<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    • Adaptability:<\/strong> Moving from Texas to Minnesota taught me flexibility isn\u2019t about loving change \u2014 it\u2019s about wearing flannel-lined jeans in July without complaining.<\/li>\n
    • Stubbornness:<\/strong> My 3 a.m. IKEA dresser assembly crisis proved determination and stupidity are cousins. (Swedish instructions + sleep deprivation = life lessons.)<\/li>\n
    • Humility:<\/strong> That time I accidentally \u201ccomplimented\u201d my boss\u2019s haircut by asking if her salon offered refunds. Yikes.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      How to spot these traits in your own life (no psych degree needed):<\/strong><\/p>\n

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      • Think about your last \u201cWhy did I DO that?!\u201d moment.<\/strong> My impulse buy of a $130 juicer (used twice) revealed my optimism-to-delusion ratio.<\/li>\n
      • Notice what makes you irrationally angry.<\/strong> Me? People who leave grocery carts in parking spots. It\u2019s not about the carts \u2014 it\u2019s about respect for shared spaces.<\/li>\n
      • Ask: \u201cWhat\u2019s my default setting in chaos?\u201d<\/strong> During a power outage last winter, my husband built a blanket fort. I stress-baked 4 dozen muffins. We all cope differently.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        A quick hack I stole from my kid\u2019s 5th-grade teacher:<\/strong> Keep a \u201cTrait Diary\u201d for a week. Jot down moments when you or others reacted strongly. My Day 3 entry: \u201cLady at Starbucks let a stressed mom skip the line \u2014 kindness<\/em>. Barista remembered my weird order (half-caf, oat milk, 1.5 pumps) \u2014 attentiveness<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

        Oh, and forget those \u201cTop 10 Traits Employers Want!\u201d lists. Real character shows up in gas station parking lots at midnight when no one\u2019s watching. It\u2019s the dad teaching his daughter to jump a dead car battery, the teen who returns a dropped wallet to customer service, the older couple arguing over discount mulch at Lowe\u2019s but still holding hands.<\/p>\n

        Your homework (if you want it):<\/strong> This week, name one<\/em> trait you\u2019ve seen in yourself \u2014 not what you wish<\/em> you had, but what\u2019s already there. Mine? I\u2019ll own it: Enthusiasm<\/strong>. Last weekend, I convinced 7 friends to try pickleball. We sucked. Laughed till our cheeks hurt. Ordered pizza. That counts.<\/p>\n

        Character\u2019s not a checklist. It\u2019s the stuff that leaks out when you\u2019re too busy living to notice. And hey \u2014 if all else fails, just ask Dave the Jeep guy. He\u2019ll tell you over a Coors Light and a story about carburetors.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        You know that moment when you\u2019re trying to describe someone \u2014 your coworker, your kid\u2019s soccer coach, your cousin who\u2019s always starting backyard projects \u2014 and you blurt out something like, \u201cOh, she\u2019s just\u2026 so\u2026\u201d and then your brain freezes? Yeah, I\u2019ve been there. (Ask my sister about the time I tried to explain why…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1757,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-content"],"modified_by":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6885","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6885"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6885\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1757"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.oreateai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}